diff --git a/bunker.go b/bunker.go
index cc96738..162aad7 100644
--- a/bunker.go
+++ b/bunker.go
@@ -6,11 +6,12 @@ import (
 	"net/url"
 	"os"
 
-	"github.com/bgentry/speakeasy"
+	"github.com/manifoldco/promptui"
 	"github.com/nbd-wtf/go-nostr"
 	"github.com/nbd-wtf/go-nostr/nip19"
 	"github.com/nbd-wtf/go-nostr/nip46"
 	"github.com/urfave/cli/v2"
+	"golang.org/x/exp/slices"
 )
 
 var bunker = &cli.Command{
@@ -96,7 +97,7 @@ var bunker = &cli.Command{
 			jresp, _ := json.MarshalIndent(resp, "  ", "  ")
 			log("~ responding with %s\n", string(jresp))
 
-			if alwaysYes || harmless || askUserIfWeCanRespond() {
+			if alwaysYes || harmless || askProceed(ie.Event.PubKey) {
 				if err := ie.Relay.Publish(c.Context, eventResponse); err == nil {
 					log("* sent response!\n")
 				} else {
@@ -109,15 +110,31 @@ var bunker = &cli.Command{
 	},
 }
 
-func askUserIfWeCanRespond() bool {
-	answer, err := speakeasy.FAsk(os.Stderr,
-		fmt.Sprintf("proceed? y/n"))
-	if err != nil {
-		return false
-	}
-	if answer == "y" || answer == "yes" {
+var allowedSources = make([]string, 0, 2)
+
+func askProceed(source string) bool {
+	if slices.Contains(allowedSources, source) {
 		return true
 	}
 
-	return askUserIfWeCanRespond()
+	prompt := promptui.Select{
+		Label: "proceed?",
+		Items: []string{
+			"no",
+			"yes",
+			"always from this source",
+		},
+	}
+	n, _, _ := prompt.Run()
+	switch n {
+	case 0:
+		return false
+	case 1:
+		return true
+	case 2:
+		allowedSources = append(allowedSources, source)
+		return true
+	}
+
+	return false
 }
diff --git a/go.mod b/go.mod
index 8c42cf8..5d589d5 100644
--- a/go.mod
+++ b/go.mod
@@ -18,6 +18,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/btcsuite/btcd/btcutil v1.1.3 // indirect
 	github.com/btcsuite/btcd/chaincfg/chainhash v1.0.2 // indirect
 	github.com/cespare/xxhash/v2 v2.2.0 // indirect
+	github.com/chzyer/readline v0.0.0-20180603132655-2972be24d48e // indirect
 	github.com/cpuguy83/go-md2man/v2 v2.0.2 // indirect
 	github.com/decred/dcrd/crypto/blake256 v1.0.1 // indirect
 	github.com/decred/dcrd/dcrec/secp256k1/v4 v4.2.0 // indirect
@@ -29,6 +30,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/gobwas/ws v1.3.1 // indirect
 	github.com/golang/glog v1.1.2 // indirect
 	github.com/josharian/intern v1.0.0 // indirect
+	github.com/manifoldco/promptui v0.9.0 // indirect
 	github.com/pkg/errors v0.9.1 // indirect
 	github.com/puzpuzpuz/xsync/v2 v2.5.1 // indirect
 	github.com/russross/blackfriday/v2 v2.1.0 // indirect
diff --git a/go.sum b/go.sum
index 6c8567a..5f846fa 100644
--- a/go.sum
+++ b/go.sum
@@ -28,6 +28,10 @@ github.com/btcsuite/winsvc v1.0.0/go.mod h1:jsenWakMcC0zFBFurPLEAyrnc/teJEM1O46f
 github.com/cespare/xxhash/v2 v2.1.1/go.mod h1:VGX0DQ3Q6kWi7AoAeZDth3/j3BFtOZR5XLFGgcrjCOs=
 github.com/cespare/xxhash/v2 v2.2.0 h1:DC2CZ1Ep5Y4k3ZQ899DldepgrayRUGE6BBZ/cd9Cj44=
 github.com/cespare/xxhash/v2 v2.2.0/go.mod h1:VGX0DQ3Q6kWi7AoAeZDth3/j3BFtOZR5XLFGgcrjCOs=
+github.com/chzyer/logex v1.1.10/go.mod h1:+Ywpsq7O8HXn0nuIou7OrIPyXbp3wmkHB+jjWRnGsAI=
+github.com/chzyer/readline v0.0.0-20180603132655-2972be24d48e h1:fY5BOSpyZCqRo5OhCuC+XN+r/bBCmeuuJtjz+bCNIf8=
+github.com/chzyer/readline v0.0.0-20180603132655-2972be24d48e/go.mod h1:nSuG5e5PlCu98SY8svDHJxuZscDgtXS6KTTbou5AhLI=
+github.com/chzyer/test v0.0.0-20180213035817-a1ea475d72b1/go.mod h1:Q3SI9o4m/ZMnBNeIyt5eFwwo7qiLfzFZmjNmxjkiQlU=
 github.com/cpuguy83/go-md2man/v2 v2.0.2 h1:p1EgwI/C7NhT0JmVkwCD2ZBK8j4aeHQX2pMHHBfMQ6w=
 github.com/cpuguy83/go-md2man/v2 v2.0.2/go.mod h1:tgQtvFlXSQOSOSIRvRPT7W67SCa46tRHOmNcaadrF8o=
 github.com/davecgh/go-spew v0.0.0-20171005155431-ecdeabc65495/go.mod h1:J7Y8YcW2NihsgmVo/mv3lAwl/skON4iLHjSsI+c5H38=
@@ -81,6 +85,8 @@ github.com/jrick/logrotate v1.0.0/go.mod h1:LNinyqDIJnpAur+b8yyulnQw/wDuN1+BYKlT
 github.com/kkdai/bstream v0.0.0-20161212061736-f391b8402d23/go.mod h1:J+Gs4SYgM6CZQHDETBtE9HaSEkGmuNXF86RwHhHUvq4=
 github.com/mailru/easyjson v0.7.7 h1:UGYAvKxe3sBsEDzO8ZeWOSlIQfWFlxbzLZe7hwFURr0=
 github.com/mailru/easyjson v0.7.7/go.mod h1:xzfreul335JAWq5oZzymOObrkdz5UnU4kGfJJLY9Nlc=
+github.com/manifoldco/promptui v0.9.0 h1:3V4HzJk1TtXW1MTZMP7mdlwbBpIinw3HztaIlYthEiA=
+github.com/manifoldco/promptui v0.9.0/go.mod h1:ka04sppxSGFAtxX0qhlYQjISsg9mR4GWtQEhdbn6Pgg=
 github.com/nbd-wtf/go-nostr v0.27.0 h1:h6JmMMmfNcAORTL2kk/K3+U6Mju6rk/IjcHA/PMeOc8=
 github.com/nbd-wtf/go-nostr v0.27.0/go.mod h1:bkffJI+x914sPQWum9ZRUn66D7NpDnAoWo1yICvj3/0=
 github.com/nbd-wtf/nostr-sdk v0.0.5 h1:rec+FcDizDVO0W25PX0lgYMXvP7zNNOgI3Fu9UCm4BY=
@@ -133,6 +139,7 @@ golang.org/x/net v0.17.0 h1:pVaXccu2ozPjCXewfr1S7xza/zcXTity9cCdXQYSjIM=
 golang.org/x/net v0.17.0/go.mod h1:NxSsAGuq816PNPmqtQdLE42eU2Fs7NoRIZrHJAlaCOE=
 golang.org/x/sync v0.0.0-20180314180146-1d60e4601c6f/go.mod h1:RxMgew5VJxzue5/jJTE5uejpjVlOe/izrB70Jof72aM=
 golang.org/x/sys v0.0.0-20180909124046-d0be0721c37e/go.mod h1:STP8DvDyc/dI5b8T5hshtkjS+E42TnysNCUPdjciGhY=
+golang.org/x/sys v0.0.0-20181122145206-62eef0e2fa9b/go.mod h1:STP8DvDyc/dI5b8T5hshtkjS+E42TnysNCUPdjciGhY=
 golang.org/x/sys v0.0.0-20190215142949-d0b11bdaac8a/go.mod h1:STP8DvDyc/dI5b8T5hshtkjS+E42TnysNCUPdjciGhY=
 golang.org/x/sys v0.0.0-20190412213103-97732733099d/go.mod h1:h1NjWce9XRLGQEsW7wpKNCjG9DtNlClVuFLEZdDNbEs=
 golang.org/x/sys v0.0.0-20190904154756-749cb33beabd/go.mod h1:h1NjWce9XRLGQEsW7wpKNCjG9DtNlClVuFLEZdDNbEs=