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@@ -2,44 +2,26 @@ NIP-43
 ======
 
 Relay Access Requests
------------------------------------
+---------------------
 
 `draft` `optional`
 
-This NIP defines a way for clients to request admission to relays enforcing authentication as defined in NIP 42 by
-signing an ephemeral event.
+Users MAY request access to relays using an ephemeral `kind 28935` event sent ONLY to the relay in question. Relay
+access requests MUST have a `claim` tag containing an arbitrary string. `content` MAY be a message to the relay admin.
 
-## Access Request Event
-
-This NIP defines kind `22243` events which are intended to allow clients to request admission to a relay.
-Access requests MUST have a `claim` tag containing an invoice, invite code, or any other arbitrary string.
-
-The event's `created_at` MUST be the current time plus or minus a few minutes to prevent replay attacks.
-Clients MAY send a claim at any time, but MUST check for relay support via NIP 11 to avoid non-compliant
-relays broadcasting invites to subscribers.
+The event's `created_at` MUST be the current time plus or minus a few minutes to prevent replay attacks. Clients MUST
+check for relay support via NIP 11 to prevent non-compliant relays broadcasting invites to subscribers. These events MUST
+NOT be stored or relayed to subscribers.
 
 This event should be sent to a relay using the standard `EVENT` verb.
 
 ```json
 {
-  "kind": 22243,
+  "kind": 28934,
+  "content": "Optional message",
   "tags": [
     ["claim", "<invoice id, invite code, or something else>"]
   ],
   ...other fields
 }
 ```
-
-## Relay response
-
-Upon receiving a claim, a relay MUST notify the client as to what the status of the claim is using an `OK` message.
-Failed claims SHOULD use the same standard `"restricted: "` prefix specified by NIP 42.
-
-Some examples:
-
-```
-["OK", <event-id>, false, "restricted: That invoice is expired."]
-["OK", <event-id>, false, "restricted: That is an unsupported claim."]
-["OK", <event-id>, true, "claim-ignored: You are already a member of this relay."]
-["OK", <event-id>, true, "claim-accepted: Welcome to wss://relay.bunk.skunk!"]
-```