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@@ -6,85 +6,68 @@ Relationship Status
 
 `draft` `optional`
 
-Event `kind:30382` documents a "Relationship Status" between two keys, the signer and a `p`-tag, and uses private and public tags to enhance the description of that relationship. Since statuses change over time, this event is defined as a _parameterized replaceable event_ with a single `d` tag whole value identifies the key pair. 
+Event `kind:30382` documents a "Relationship Status" between two keys and uses private and public tags to describe that relationship. 
 
-Optional `n` tags add the target key to unbound lists.
+Since statuses change over time, this event is defined as a _parameterized replaceable event_ with a single `d` tag that identifies the target key. 
 
-The private tags are JSON Stringified, [NIP-44](44.md)-encrypted and placed inside the `.content` of the event. 
-
-Example of Public Status
+When the relationship is public, the `d` tag is the same as the `p`-tag.
 
 ```js
 {
   "kind": 30382,
   "tags": [
-    ["d", "<randomUUID>"],
-    ["n", "Client List"],
-    ["n", "Special Holidays List"],
-    ["p", "<pubkey>", "relay"],
-    ["trust_level", "1"],
-    ["petname", "<My buddy>"],
-    ["summary", "<Summary of the relationship>"]
-  ],
-  "content": "",
-  // ...other fields
-}
-```
-
-Example of Private Status
-
-```js
-{
-  "kind": 30382,
-  "tags": [
-    ["d", "<randomUUID>"],
-    ["n", "Clients List"],
-    ["n", "6064460175057025"], // see private n-tags below
+    ["d", "e88a691e98d9987c964521dff60025f60700378a4879180dcbbb4a5027850411"],
+    ["n", "Follow"],
+    ["n", "Bitcoiners"],
+    ["n", "6064460175057025"]
+    ["p", "e88a691e98d9987c964521dff60025f60700378a4879180dcbbb4a5027850411", "<relay>"],
   ],
   "content": nip44Encrypt(JSON.stringify([
-    ["p", "<pubkey>", "relay"],
-    ["petname", "<My buddy>"],
-    ["summary", "<Summary of the relationship>"],
-    ["nip82secret", "<secret used to decrypt medical data for this pubkey>"]
+    ["petname", "NVK (Coldcard)"],
+    ["summary", "Owes me a beer"]
   ])),
   // ...other fields
 }
 ```
 
+The private tags are JSON Stringified, [NIP-44](44.md)-encrypted to the signer's keys and placed inside the `.content` of the event. 
+
 `petname` SHOULD be used instead of the person's display name in all interfaces
 
-Profile screens MAY display the summary of the relationship and allow the user to change the tags of this event.
+### Relationship Categories
 
-Clients MAY filter by `kind:30382`, with or without `n` tags, to determine how to assemble feeds, group messages, and when to display content. 
+Optional `n` tags `["n", "<list code>"]` add the target key to unbound lists. This allows clients to query by `n` and download all members of a list. 
 
-Web of Trust processors MAY use `kind:30382` as directional edges in the Web of Trust graph. 
-
-Multiple `p`-tags in a single `kind:30382` represent a group of individuals that SHOULD be considered as of one entity. The other tags decribe the relationship to the entity and not individual keys.  
-
-Having one `p`-tag in multiple `d`-tags represent separate statuses for the same pubkey based on their participation in a list `n`
-
-### Private `n`-tags
-
-Clients MAY hide human readable `n`-tags behind a code and list their code maps in the new "Unbound List Names" event kind (`kind:10008`), using the `map` tag from code to name. 
+List `codes` can be human readable or not. A new event kind named "Unbound List Names" (`kind:10008`) uses `map` tags to display the list name. Clients SHOULD display the `name` instead of the `code` if the `code` is present in this list.
 
 ```js
 {
   "kind": 10008,
   "content": nip44Encrypt(JSON.stringify([
-    ["map", "<Code used in other events>", "<Human readable name>"],
-    ["map", "Clients List", "Clients List"], // public list of my Clients
-    ["map", "6064460175057025", "Idiots"] // private list of idiots
+    ["map", "<code>", "<name>"],
+    ["map", "Bitcoiners", "Bitcoiners"], 
+    ["map", "6064460175057025", "Debtors"]
   ])),
   // ...other fields
 }
 ```
 
-### Deterministic `d`-Tags. 
+### Private Relationship Status
 
-For private use cases that must contain deterministic d-Tags, the recommendation is to use [NIP-44](44.md)'s `hkdf` function and use a hash between the user's private key and the pubkey of the `p` tag.
+For relationships that MUST remain private, a deterministic `d`-Tag is calculated using [NIP-44](44.md)'s `hkdf` function and a `sha256` hash between the signer's private key and the pubkey of the `p` tag.
 
-```
-nip81_key = hkdf(private_key, salt: 'nip81') 
-bobs_d_tag = sha256(nip81_key || bobs_pub)
-kates_d_tag = sha256(nip81_key || kates_pub)
+```js
+{
+  "kind": 30382,
+  "tags": [
+    ["d", sha256(hkdf(private_key, salt: 'nip81') || "<pubkey>")],
+  ],
+  "content": nip44Encrypt(JSON.stringify([
+    ["p", "<pubkey>", "relay"],
+    ["n", "Clients List"],
+    ["petname", "<My buddy>"],
+    ["summary", "<Summary of the relationship>"],
+  ])),
+  // ...other fields
+}
 ```
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