Changing from simple-xmpp to xmppjs

package.json

@@ -15,15 +15,16 @@
     }
   ],
   "dependencies": {
-    "@types/ws": "8.5.5",
-    "assert": "^2.1.0",
-    "bech32": "2.0.0",
-    "ini": "2.0.0",
-    "nostr-tools": "1.14.2",
-    "simple-xmpp": "1.3.0",
-    "sqlite3": "5.1.6",
+    "@xmpp/client": "^0.13.0",
+    "bech32": "^2.0.0",
+    "debug": "^4.3.4",
+    "fs": "0.0.1-security",
+    "ini": "^2.0.0",
+    "nostr-tools": "^1.9.0",
+    "os": "^0.1.2",
+    "path": "^0.12.7",
     "websocket-polyfill": "0.0.3",
-    "ws": "^8.14.0"
+    "ws": "^8.13.0"
   },
   "bugs": {
     "url": "https://git.vanderwarker.family/nostr/nostrsms/issues"